ASHANA KAIULANI · SPEAKER + FACILITATOR
Conversations people keep thinking about after they leave the room.
Ashana speaks about self-trust, boundaries, relational trauma, and what it takes to build a life that feels like your own again.
SIGNATURE SPEAKING TOPICS
Give them something they can actually use.
01
When Adapting Becomes Your Identity
What happens when being capable, useful, and easy to need becomes the way you survive, and how we begin finding ourselves underneath it.
02
You Know Better. So Why Can’t You Do Better?
Why self-awareness alone doesn’t always change the patterns we understand perfectly, and what helps insight become something we can actually live.
03
The Cost of Being the Strong One
A look at independence, overgiving, and what it takes to make room for your own needs, support, and humanity.
04
Finding Your Way Back to Yourself
Rebuilding self-trust after relational trauma, betrayal, and years spent second-guessing yourself.
Topics can be adapted for keynotes, workshops, panels, retreats, podcasts, and community events.
FOR YOUR AUDIENCE
They’ll recognize themselves in the conversation.
Language for what they’ve been experiencing.
A better understanding of the patterns they keep repeating.
Practical ways to respond differently in real life.
More confidence trusting what they already know about themselves.
The goal is for people to leave feeling understood, hopeful, and able to do something with what they just heard.
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
From an intimate room to a bigger stage.
KEYNOTES
Thought-provoking talks shaped around your audience and event theme.
PANELS + COMMUNITY EVENTS
Grounded conversation alongside other voices, experiences, and perspectives.
WORKSHOPS
Interactive spaces with reflection, conversation, and practical application.
PODCASTS + INTERVIEWS
Long-form conversations about self-trust, relational trauma, boundaries, identity, and what comes next.
RETREATS
Deeper conversations designed to complement the experience you’re creating.
ORGANIZATIONS + TEAMS
Adaptable talks for nonprofits, advocacy organizations, wellness spaces, universities, and community programs.
Have something different in mind? I’m happy to talk about what would serve your audience best.
MEET YOUR SPEAKER
Lived experience. Professional training. A willingness to talk about the messy parts.
Ashana Kaiulani is a trauma recovery coach, speaker, and host of The Reclamation Room. Her work explores what happens after survival, when understanding what happened is only the beginning and the harder work becomes learning how to trust yourself, make different choices, and build a life that feels like your own.
• Speaker at women’s wellness, trauma recovery + advocacy events
• Host of The Reclamation Room, a global Top 10% podcast
• Trauma Support Specialist + QMBT Certified Life Coach
• Creator and facilitator of workshops, groups + community programs for women and girls
SPEAKING INQUIRIES
Let’s make something meaningful for your audience.
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